Linguistic Misattribution
One of the skills that I have been practicing in my study of NVC, mindfulness, and rationality is what is variously called “original seeing”, or “seeing with fresh eyes”. It is the skill of observing a thing simply, as though for the first time, with the intention of seeing the thing as it really is. This involves shutting down one’s automatic thought processes, and avoiding the application of judgments that come to us naturally.